There could be no better welcome home present than a new baby nephew. I am totally in love… Here he is at one day old.
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The kindness of strangers
Mrs Tanaka with a bowl of azuki kake-gori (shaved ice with azuki beans)
It never ceases to amaze me what an important role strangers can play in our lives. Many years ago, when I first went to Kyoto at the tender age of 19 to study, this particular lady made a huge difference to my time there.
Finding safety
Close your eyes and imagine yourself in a long dark wooden hall, standing in front of an army of more than 1000 many-armed kannon statues.
They are about the same height as you and are staring directly at you.
They stand proud, several rows deep.
How do you feel?
Kyoto cafes part 8 – Sagano-yu
Do you ever go into a particular cafe and feel all the tension leaving your shoulders as you give a sigh of happy comfort? That is how I feel when I go into Sagano-yu cafe in Arashiyama, a beautifully restored old Japanese bath house which is now a cafe and shop.
Thank you Japan
It has been amazing. There are so many people and places to thank for making it such a special experience. Here are just a few of them.
Japan: The price we paid, the memories we made
Any bold move, big change or great adventure requires a sacrifice of some kind. This is true in business, life and travel. It’s simple economics – every choice you make has an opportunity cost. Every dollar you spend on a plane ticket is a dollar you can’t spend somewhere else. And the bigger the challenge, the greater the risk… but of course the bigger the reward can be.
Today I found myself sat pondering what we have missed by taking a leap, packing up and moving to Japan for six months.
Kyoto cafes 7 – Amuca
Packing up and moving on
Six months.
180 days.
Half a year.
It seemed like such a long time back then.
Now it is hard to believe our Japan adventure is nearly over.
As we pack up our things, empty our flat, fold up our memories and tuck away our plans, we head out, hand in hand, for a new adventure.
What I’m looking forward to
It’s hard to imagine I’ll be touching down in London a week today. While I run around soaking up the last days in Kyoto, I can’t helping thinking of some of the things I am looking forward to when I get back (in no particular order):
A life-threatening allergy forced me to do what I love – Carrie Schmitt’s story
Today’s shared story comes from Carrie Schmitt in Seattle, USA, who shares how a life-threatening allergy forced her to do what she loves.
I didn’t do what I loved until I was forced. It was a matter of survival, at least emotionally. In 2009, I developed a life-threatening allergy to heat. It. Was. Devastating. I couldn’t leave my home for 4 months because of the extreme heat and humidity in Ohio.
Gone were spending leisurely days at the pool with my children or tinkering in my beloved garden, which gave me a joy so pure and connected to the rythmn of life that I didn’t know how I could survive without it.
Also, gone were the mundane errands, such as shopping and carpooling. Suddenly, for the first time since college, I had time for myself. I was often left home alone while my husband and kids went about their summer lives.
Thinking that my life was over (at least an outdoor, physically active life that I loved) is what finally pushed me to pursue a dream I had long ignored — to become an artist. I distinctly remembered thinking to myself, “Well, if my life is over, I might as well do what I want and paint.”
I picked up a paintbrush, experimented and began taking online art classes. Slowly, I felt alive and excited again. I had a reason to wake up early in the morning — to paint flowers instead of plant them.
This act of desperation—forcing myself to do what I love and have always loved which is to create—was the first of many gifts that my dreadful heat allergy has given me. Strangely, my dis-ease realigned my life in ways that made my dreams start coming true.
Today, my family and I reside in a more temperate climate in our farmhouse on a wet and wild mountain in Washington — another long ago abandoned childhood dream come true for me thanks to my heat allergy.
I have my own detached studio at our home and am an artist who recently launched my first professional website, which became a transformative moment for me when I realized that I was actually working and living as an artist!
I’ve noticed throughout my life that when you don’t follow your authentic path and do what you love, the universe gives you signs. Signs I ignored for so long that the universe finally screamed at me to sit down and paint.
I’m in a state of bliss because I finally listened. My wish for you is that you find the strength to listen to your soul’s deepest whispers too and don’t wait until you think your life is over to follow your dreams.
[Images courtesy of Carrie Schmitt. Find out more about Carrie on her website or connect on Facebook and Pinterest]
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