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Honeymoon (2): Castel Monastero in Tuscany

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After Florence we headed off into the Tuscan countryside for some chill out time in a beautiful old converted monastery. I had read about Castel Monastero in several ‘luxury spa’ and ‘best hotels’ books – the name kept popping up again and again so we decided to try it out. The place was perfect for us after the manic few weeks that precede a wedding. It was so peaceful and relaxed, giving us plenty of time to reflect on the brilliant time we had at our wedding, as well as talk about the kind of marriage and life we want to share in the years ahead.

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We borrowed the hotel’s bikes and cycled past the olive groves surrounding the estate, soaked in the spa (which we had completely to ourselves, complete with strange dead sea salt bath) and then came back to the stunning hotel bar for very welcome cocktails!

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One of my favourite parts of this section of our honeymoon was the stunning Gordon Ramsay restaurant in the basement of the hotel. ‘Cantina’ is built inside a vaulted wine cellar, reached down a narrow set of uneven stone steps lit only with candles.

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These photos don’t really do the place justice. It was so atmospheric and the food was divine, paired with delicious wines from the hotel’s own vineyard. They happily made things to order if what you fancied wasn’t on the menu, and nothing was rushed. We ended up eating here three times!

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We discovered the best creme brulee in the world…

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While at Castel Monastero we also hired a driver and went on a long tour of the local vineyards. Such fun! More on that in my next honeymoon post…

Every day of our honeymoon felt like a precious gift of time to relax, soak up the beauty of the Italian countryside, and spend time together. We are grateful to our families and wedding guests who contributed to our honeymoon as our wedding present. The gift of travel was the perfect gift for us.

You can read my other honeymoon posts here: (1) Florence / (2) Castel Monastero / (3) Winetasting in Tuscany / (4) Borgo Santo Pietro / (5) Pasta masterclass / (6) Pisa and home

Do What You Love Interview – Cat Mills

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Today’s rather unusual Do What You Love interview is with Cat Mills, a film-maker and writer. Cat is naturally drawn to the bizarre and seeks out the unconventional from every corner, whether that is attending gathering of UFO conspiracy theorists or battling it out tooth and nail at La Tomatina, the world’s largest food fight. This is what led her to start her web series, Wicked and Weird Around the World.  In the series Cat travels around the globe in search of some of the strangest festivals, competitions and celebrations known to man.

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1.    How are you leading a life ‘doing what you love’?

I’ve always been fascinated by subcultures, festivals and everything that is different.  With this project I get to travel, explore, learn and express – and I couldn’t ask for anything more.  I’m also getting back to my filmmaking roots, which I had somehow misplaced along the way.  It feels good to be creative.

2.    What did you do before this?

Prior to Wicked and Weird, I worked for an international film sales company in London for 4 years where I worked in the office and travelled to the Cannes and Berlin Film Festivals.  Before that I worked in Vancouver in film production under a national mentorship program with the CFTPA (Canadian Film and Television Producers Association, now known as the CMPA).

3.    What was you a-ha moment that pushed you to change / realise your passion in life?

My epiphany was a long time coming.  It hit critical levels when my old company was in the process of being bought out.  It left me uncertain of my future and forced me to ask myself what it was that I really wanted to do.  I had enjoyed film sales, but it wasn’t my passion.  Ironically, the idea for the project came from a job application.  In it you had to pitch a TV show idea, so I pitched a series on weird festivals.  I didn’t get the job, but it did inspire this idea, which grew on me more and more until I was in love with it.  I quit my job in August 2012 and have been busy working on Wicked and Weird Around the World ever since.

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4.    How did you make it happen?

My partner received a job offer in Malta around the same time that I was considering leaving my job.  When we looked into it, we discovered that the rent was far cheaper in Malta than it was in London, which would make it easier financially as I worked to launch the project. I also made sure to tell everyone what I was doing so that I couldn’t chicken out of it.  You need support to pursue your dreams and I’m very fortune to have some incredible friends, and my partner, at my side. The important thing is to keep going and not to stop, despite your inner critic.

5.    What has been your biggest challenge and how did you overcome it?

The biggest challenge for me as always been deciding what I want to do and then going out and doing it.  Achieving things, once you set your mind to it, is not nearly as challenging as that first step.  It’s not an easy question, but taking the time to learn about yourself and what makes you happy is the most important thing you can do and giving yourself permission to do it is incredibly important. Making that initial leap of faith and going for it was my biggest challenge.

6.    Who is your role model and why?

My family members are my role models; they’ve all shown such strength and diversity in their talents, passions and abilities.  It is probably my father who has inspired me the most in regard to this project.  I remember my aunt telling me the story of how, when he was in his 20’s, he managed to convince his brother, sister in law and nieces and nephew to all venture out to a Shakespearean Night at the local restaurant, saying simply “We have to do this”.  Everyone made the crappiest makeshift costumes they could find with barbeque skewers as swords and headed out, only to find that half the people weren’t dressed up and the other half were in proper Shakespearean outfits.  Regardless, out of everyone at the restaurant they had the most fun.  I saw the same adventurous spirit in my sister when she convinced me to go to the Burial of the Sardine while we were in Spain.  It’s that spirit that keeps me doing it.

7.    What is the best advice you have received?

A friend once told me to always trust your gut. Your heart will deceive you.  Your brain will try to justify it. But your gut always knows what the score is.  She was right.  It’s your intuition.  It’s advice that I have applied to both my personal and professional life; keeping me safe and moving in the right direction.

8.    What keeps you awake at night?

Our kitten.  He keeps attacking my feet.

9.    And what gets you up in the morning?

The desire to keep moving and get through my agenda.  And that first pot of tea…it keeps me going!  Finding these festivals is a bit like a drug.  There isn’t enough time in the day to get it all done!

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10.  What is the big dream for your business?

The big dream is to reach a wide international audience and get the whole series funded, possibly for television. I’m receiving a great deal of support from festival organisers and tourist boards, which is really encouraging.  I’d also like to see more people attending these festivals and doing something a bit off colour.

[All images courtesy of Cat Mills.]

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Honeymoon part 1 – Florence

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And so to the honeymoon story… After our brilliant wedding (pictures of which are coming soon), we headed off to Italy for our honeymoon. I don’t know what it is about the word ‘honeymoon’ but it has a dreaminess about it which perfectly describes how you feel when you are on one.

We flew into Pisa and took a train through the Italian countryside to Florence, a beautiful city packed with history and art at every turn.

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We only had one night in the city, so spent many hours walking the cobbled streets, strolling through the Boboli Gardens, basking in the sunshine and eating gelato.

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Borgo San Jacopo inside Salvatore Ferragamo’s beautiful Hotel Lungarno where we stayed

We had promised ourselves that we would eat and drink whatever delicious feasts we fancied while away, so we started with dinner at Borgo San Jacopo, a fine dining restaurant I had visited on my own a few weeks before Mr K and I first met.

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Back then, as I sat by the window overlooking the River Arno shortly after my 30th birthday I made a promise to myself that when I met the love of my life I would bring him here – so it was the perfect place to start out Italian honeymoon.

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You should have seen Mr K’s face when the ‘amuse bouche’ appeared as a gift from the chef. I think he thought this was the world’s tiniest starter (or some kind of culinary joke – but it tasted delicious!)…

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Pop back soon for Honeymoon part 2, when we venture into the Italian countryside for a taste of Tuscany…

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You can read my other honeymoon posts here: (1) Florence / (2) Castel Monastero / (3) Winetasting in Tuscany / (4) Borgo Santo Pietro / (5) Pasta masterclass / (6) Pisa and home

Wedding countdown: Hen do!

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It feels a little strange writing about this now when my hen do was back in late March, but I made a decision to take 5 weeks off around my wedding and honeymoon, and that included virtually no blogging or social media – so now I am back I want to share it all with you, even if it is a little late!

For those of you who have never heard of a ‘hen do’, it is what brides call the party they have with their girl friends before getting married (and boys have a ‘stag do’). In the US I think the closest thing would be a ‘bachelorette party’, although hen dos here tend to include going away for several days.

Anyway, because we had decided on a tiny wedding, I felt strange about the idea of having a large hen do with lovely friends who weren’t coming to the wedding, so instead I decided to have the World’s Smallest Hen Do (WSHD) with just me and my best friend Heather.

Heather and I met at university nearly 20 years ago, and have been like sisters ever since. Everyone used to joke that we seem to come as a pair, often getting us mixed up (although I don’t think we look alike!). We were actually born on the same day, so share lots of Taurean traits, and have a great excuse for celebrating our birthdays together!

Tradition has it that the bride-to-be gets dressed up in a lot of pink (often including variations on cowboys/tiaras/feathers etc) and totters around town in very high heels and a very short dress, drinking a lot and cackling wildly. But that isn’t really my scene, so we went for something else. For the WSHD Heather and I decided to take a trip down memory lane, and go to a spa up in the North East of England, near where we went to university (in Durham). It was a blissful few days, where we got to catch up properly on the details of our lives, get pampered, skim stones at the beach, and blow away the cobwebs on a blustery visit to the coast. Just my kind of trip away. Here are some pictures from this very special time…

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Zipping off in Heather’s sports car for a few days away

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We went via one of the most fabulous bookshops I have ever been too – Barter books, inside an old railway station. (I know, who goes to a bookshop on their hen do? But you have to realise this was MY hen do and I love bookshops!)

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Off to the lovely Doxford Hall hotel & spa

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We got lost in the hotel’s maze…

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And every day Heather surprised me with a little gift to help me prepare for married life!

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We spent one wonderful evening an incredible restaurant IN THE TREES! 

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The Treehouse Restaurant is in the grounds of Alnwick Castle, where Harry Potter was filmed, and is as magical as you might imagine, and a whole lot more delicious than we had expected. You reach it via a wooden walkway and it is literally in the treetops.

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(The North Face coat over a summer dress is never a good look, but it was freeeeeezing!)

We were blown along by crazy winds out at Bamburgh Castle

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…where the shoreline reminded me of Cape Cod

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…And we skimmed stones near the lifeboats at Seahouses, famous for the incredibly brave local resident Grace Darling (read more about her amazing story here)

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Of course by then it was time for tea…

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And we couldn’t resist this sweet little local shop with such a brilliant sign in the window (our kind of place).

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We spent hours reminiscing about old times (shared adventures at uni, in Japan where we have both lived for several years, on holidays in Thailand, Greece and more…) and looked ahead to our plans and dreams for the future. What a special few days it was. We have decided to make it an annual thing, to get away in Spring for a few days, just the two of us.

And then it started to snow! We had to race back through the countryside to make it in time for my final wedding dress fitting, and this is what awaited when we got there:

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A rowdy, drunken, sun-soaked hen do it wasn’t, but my kind of hen do it was. Thank you Heather!

I love business trips – wandering Boston

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A few days ago I got back from a fantastic trip to the US, where I filmed a series of videos for this exciting new project with Lilla Rogers (more on that in the coming days!). When we had wrapped up filming I had a couple of days to myself in Boston. I love having a bit of down time in a new place after several days of work, to explore it and be inspired whilst gathering my thoughts before plunging back into my life back home.

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Boston is a particularly good city for walking, and for sitting in cafes, and I did much of both those things. I wanted to share a few photos from my wanderings, so here you go… I just love the wreaths hung on so many of the brick buildings and lampposts, even though Christmas is long gone. They are so pretty and welcoming, and bring a warmth to winter.

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I stayed at the lovely Encore B&B, a very cool little place inside a beautiful house owned by a former architect and theatre director. It is in the heart of South End, and I loved having the attic room with a balcony looking out over the snowy city.

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The Encore B&B – My home from home for the duration of my stay in Boston

I feel very lucky to have this kind of business trip!

The finished product – a very special business sign

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Noren are beautiful, functional curtains traditionally used outside business premises in Kyoto to show that they are open, and also to provide a simple divider between ‘inside’ and ‘outside’. In yesterday’s post I shared a glimpse into the special 1-1 workshop I had with kimono designer Miura-san, who taught me how to make my very own noren for Do What You Love.

Today I want to share the finishing touches – which were added with the help of an artisan who makes her living adding the gold and silver flourishes to hand made silk kimonos (see above), from her attic studio at the top of her narrow wooden Kyoto house. It was a true privilege to see inside this cottage industry, and be shown the ropes by a veteran of 50+ years.

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Firstly I was shown how to create a stencil of my design using sticky back plastic…

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… then we added a kind of glue and carefully laid the silver leaf in place.

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This was hoovered off…

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and left my design, precisely outlined in silver. The long strip of linen was then cut into the original three panels which were sewn together and looped at the top to allow the curtain to hang from bamboo.

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And here is the final result! The two birds flying towards the moon represent possibility, support and freedom.

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In the bottom right hand corner the letters ‘DWYL’ are written in the style of a Japanese hanko-seal.

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It is my very own handmade noren from Kyoto and I love it!

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Making my own noren in a Kyoto studio

One of my most precious experiences in Japan was designing and making a ‘noren’ curtain under the watchful eye of the brilliant designer Miura-san in Nishijin, the traditional textile district of Kyoto. I started writing about this some time back in this post (‘Behind the scenes’) and this post (‘Sketching out’), but did not get round to finishing my story. However I really want to show you the rest of it, so here we go…

A noren is a fabric divider which hangs across the entrance of businesses all across Kyoto, providing a layer of privacy when the door is open, as well as protection from the sun and wind, and advertising space to announce what the shop or business sells. They are hung up at the beginning of the day to show a shop is open for business. Often made of linen and strung from bamboo, they usually feature delicate ink paintings or beautifully drawn Chinese characters. They are at once mysterious and inviting. And I really wanted to learn how to make one. So I asked Miura-san if he would teach me, and I made one for Do What You Love.

First I sketched it out, then I stretched the linen onto a genius  contraption (below)…

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We mixed up some rice wine ‘neri’ (a gluey solution which isn’t actually glue, but blocks the colour penetrating the fabric)…

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…spread it over the areas of the design I wanted to keep the colour of the linen…

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…and then brushed a sandy substance over it

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Once that was dry, we brushed off the excess sand and were left with a perfectly masked version of my design…

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The next stage was the part which saw the most stunning transformation – dyeing the linen in indigo dye. We cooked up the dye in the little kitchen at the back of the studio…

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Painted it on with a wide bristle brush (note the bare feet – no shoes allowed inside in Japanese studios!)

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These bamboo spreaders helped keep it taut as the linen dried. Love the stunning kimono backdrop – such an inspiring place to work.

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We then covered it in a kind of resin to make the colour stay fast….

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… and then left it to dry again.

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The curtains are now nearly ready – they just need a bit of sparkly Kyoto magic, courtesy of an artisan who works from the attic of her tiny wooden house. Pop back tomorrow to see what we got up to, and what the final product looked like!

Introducing the Wall Of Wisdom

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The other day I painted every inch of a wall in our house black. Not just any black – blackboard black! And now I can doodle and scribble to my heart’s content. It is such fun!

And in the process I decided to write an inspirational quote on there and thought it looked cool. And so the Wall of Wisdom was born. Every Monday I am going to share an inspiring quote from my Wall of Wisdom – sometimes musings of mine, and sometimes those of others. I am going to start with the quotes you told us are your favourites (in the comments of this post).

And if this day – December 21 2012, is not the end of the world as some predict, then what a perfect day to begin the rest of your life. There is no better time to ask “What are you waiting for?”

Please feel free to share the Black Wall of Wisdom images on your blog/Facebook/Twitter and inspire someone today and every Friday!