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How to publish your book

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This is a guest post by Alastair Humphreys. Alastair is an adventurer, blogger, author and motivational speaker whose expeditions have included cycling round the worldwalking across India and rowing the Atlantic. Alastair was named as a National Geographic Adventurer of the Year for his pioneering work on the concept of micro adventures. He has also written five books about his adventures. Find out more here.

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I get asked regularly about how to publish a book, and whether it is best to find a publisher or to self-publish your story.

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Back home and over £55,000 raised!

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This is our final guest post from Claire Le Hur who has just returned from an epic cycling adventure to China with her fiancé Stuart Block. The couple started their adventure in East Africa, where they followed new ‘silk roads’ to chart the journey of key natural resources as part of an exciting new education project. Claire rode a bamboo bike built by an African social enterprise, and Stuart rode a tandem, keeping the back seat free for those they met en route. They have now raised awareness and thousands of pounds for two great educational charities. Find out more about Claire’s big adventure here.

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We got back to the UK on a very cold and grey day, and the next day was Brexit and all the ensuing madness: a political revolution in London, or just more of the same on (super) fast-forward? For anyone who hasn’t seen it, you can read Stuart’s blog post from a year ago here. He wrote it as we were leaving London for our adventure and he proved remarkably prescient when he predicted a ‘bloodbath in the corridors of Westmister’.

We were starting to wonder why we had bothered to come back to England, so to take our minds off things we got back on our bikes and made sure we cycled the full 11,000km we were aiming for (we reached 10,000km in Hong Kong.) We did our own version of the ‘London Revolution’, cycling around the M25 (or a few miles outside it!), visiting schools and friends along the way.

Our route took us to several schools in Surrey, Cambridge and London as well as two days at the Telegraph/Wellington Festival of Education at Wellington College. At Wellington we addressed teachers on ‘how to bring an adventure into the classroom’ and students on ‘Overseas Aid; Who Benefits’. We were delighted to have a photo call with renowned philosopher, A. C. Grayling.

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How to make it in the world of… travel writing

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Today we speak to Laura Knight, a lady who has combined her three biggest loves – travel, motorbikes and writing – to make the world her office. Laura has been riding motorbikes for over 10 years, a passion which has opened her up to many life-changing experiences and inspired her to give something back to the travel industry. Here she shares her story and top tips for making it as travel writer…


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A few months into a great job at a hedge fund, I decided to pack up my New York City life into a tiny orange R.E.I. backpack, sublet my cosy bedroom, and hit the road. I didn’t know where I was going or what I’d end up doing to stay fed and sheltered, but I knew that working a desk job just wasn’t for me.

Fast-forward three months and here I am: writing this from a vegan coffee shop near my new digs for the week – my travel friend’s apartment in Siem Reap, Cambodia.

Laura Knight travel writer 2Working from coffee shops around the world – that’s what’s in store for you as a travel writer. And, to be honest, the Wi-Fi in Cambodia is spot on!

So… how did I get here?

I love to travel. Meeting people from cool places, sampling new cuisines, and experiencing some of the most beautiful places in the world are all things that I want to do. Every. Single. Day.

Laura Knight travel writer 2As a motorcycle travel writer, I get to ride roads like this, then write about them. Then I get paid. Why would anyone want to work in an office again?! But the starting wasn’t all rainbows and butterflies…

Until I found myself in Bangalore, India, I hadn’t really given the money issue much thought. I have a brain and can string coherent sentences together, so I figured (all too nonchalantly) that I’d just be a freelance writer.

One slight problem – you need contracts if you want to get paid for writing freelance. And those contracts don’t just materialise the instant you decide you want to write for money. Only now, after working my butt off, I’m finally earning enough to support myself (albeit in Southeast Asia, which is an incredibly affordable place to live).

Here are a few things I wish I’d known before I launched my new writing career…

Starting out

There are two ways you can slice this pie. You can:

  1. go full out sink-or-swim, quit your day-job and book a flight (like I did). The advantage here is that you are really putting yourself in a situation where you MUST succeed. No ifs, buts or maybes. No procrastinating.  For those of you who are motivated by pressure like this, take the leap!
  2. keep your job and slowly start to build out a portfolio of work and develop a few long-term clients that will sustain you once you finally get to the flight-booking stage.

Either way, you’re going to have to do step number two, it just depends on how much pressure you want to throw into the mix.

Plan… a bit

When I left the States, I had about $1,000 in my savings and checkings combined, as well as a credit line of about $4,000 left for emergencies only.

The money disappeared fast and looking back, I wish I’d concentrated on building up my client base and generating an income before making any big travel moves. I should have made time to actually sit down and look at the daily cost of living in the places I wanted to go, and then doubled it (or at least added on a few bucks) to come up with my daily budget.

If you are ever in a situation where you are running out of money, my advice is to be an adult about it and don’t bury your head in the sand. Find a cheap hostel (or better yet, someone to host you on their couch via CouchSurfing), then put on some tunes and rock out those job applications.

Decide on your niche

As a travel writer, you still need to come up with a more defined notion of who you are in terms of your voice and target audience. This is the topic you’ll be writing about day in and day out, and you’ll have to adjust your content to match.

I write about two things, both of which I have firsthand experience – motorcycle travel and cycling travel. The motorcycle travelling pieces are easy and fun, I just tell my cycling adventures in written form and throw in a few buzzwords and the writing is good to go.

Using your own travels as inspiration and getting paid for it is one of the coolest parts about travel writing!

But, at the end of the day, if you are travelling and writing, you need money to continue to travel and write about your travels. So, I also write some career consulting and resume advice columns. While not travel-related, these are my chance to maintain well-paid and consistent contracts which allow me to fund more travels and write more about the topic I love… travel!

Do some research and figure out what options exist for you

Look into websites like Upwork, Freelancer, Fiverr, and even Craigslist for job opportunities. I rely entirely on contract work through Upwork, and it’s enough to keep me going from Vietnam to Cambodia to Thailand, and beyond!

There will be highs and lows

Don’t get me wrong, there have been lows. My biggest was the day I realised I had only $15 cash left in my pocket and nowhere to stay. I had spent the week before lounging around on a beach hammock in Koh Rong, an island off the coast of Cambodia, blissfully unaware of the financial impact taking a week off work before developing a steady flow of writing jobs would have.

By the time I realised it, I had only enough (almost to the cent) for a night bus to Siem Reap, where old travel friends were willing to host me until I could earn enough to keep moving. Fortunately in this instance, good luck and timing were on my side but I won’t make this mistake again in a hurry.

At the same time, being a digital nomad can bring the highest of highs, especially when you aren’t expecting them. My biggest high came out of the blue one morning when I was scheduling my full day’s work as a “professional” person. I suddenly realized that I’d actually done it: I’d created a life where I could be self-sufficient, save a little, and travel around some incredible places. This was the moment I knew I’d done the right thing by taking a risk and quitting my life in NYC. My new life was totally worth it.

Don’t give up.

Yes, I know it’s the most clichéd advice anyone could give someone making a bold career move or a life change, but SERIOUSLY, do not give up. All too often I meet folks who tried their hand at freelancing and travelling only to not make it in the first few months, pack up their backpack, and return to their cubicle.

Laura Knight travel writer 3Working from the beach is so much nicer than being stuck in a cubicle all day. Stay focused and this could be your workplace, too

If that’s what truly makes you happy, by all means, work from cubicle to corner office. But if it isn’t, and for many of you reading this, it probably isn’t, stick tight to your dream.

Over the course of a couple weeks, when I was living entirely off my dwindling savings, I applied to 10 jobs per day. At certain points, I was sending out nearly 50 applications every two days only to hear back from two potential clients.

In my experience, Upwork is brilliant for allowing you to work when you want, where you want, and it offers any type of job you can think of. I enjoy writing about things that interest me, so I use it to apply for travel and career-related writing gigs.

My only advice is to do a bit of background research before sending out your first job proposal as a cover letter on Upwork is a little different to a full-on professional cover letter.

Beginning to land contracts on Upwork is interesting. My first day I landed a $35 contract writing a travel guide on an island in the Philippines that I had never been to.

It wasn’t until I started receiving more regular contracts, where I could be certain of additional work coming in after I turned in each article, that I started to really feel a bit of financial security and even excitement about the work! Instead of spending all day proposing to new jobs, I was able to just continue on, writing about topics I found interesting. But as I learned,  you won’t get there overnight (or even in a few weeks). Patience, grasshoppers!

You’re your own boss now!

Don’t make excuses. The thing that nobody realises when they are getting into freelance, especially when you are transitioning from a 9-to-5 office environment, is that you are your own boss. You need to stay motivated, apply to jobs, meet your deadlines, and turn in high-quality work. Being the very best you can be is the key to gaining more contracts (especially the challenging ones that you’ll learn and grow most from!).

Dream on…

Whether this travelling, writing and wandering lasts or not, there have been a few things that I’ve learned about myself from diving right in to a new life as a freelance travel writer.

  1. First and foremost, that balancing savings and spending (that’s getting to a point where I earn more than I spend) takes a huge amount of dedication, discipline, and willpower.
  2. That you do have to plan ahead, be organised and work really hard.
  3. Ultimately, that whatever I end up doing in the future, whether it’s continuing to travel the world, or settling down with a hoard of cats, I know that I have the brainpower and the chutzpah to make it.

Good luck fellow wanderlusters, may the Wi-Fi be speedy and the coffee be plentiful and locally ground, wherever in the world you are!

In addition to her work as a freelance writer, Laura has also created MotorManner.com, in which she shares the best information  about motorcycling and travelling to help people get the most from their adventures. Visit her blog for useful motorcycle travelling gear reviews and helpful travel tips.

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3 things to do TODAY to make next year different

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As we come to the end of the year, it’s only natural to reflect on what has gone before. Did 2016 turn out how you wanted? Did you get closer to your dreams? As the founder of a company called Do What You Love, I am often asked what is the single most important factor in doing what you love. And you know what? I think it’s commitment. Perhaps not the sexiest answer, but it’s the truth.

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But what if I don’t know what I want to commit to? You might ask… I hear you. That’s a tough one, right? Well, actually, early on simply committing to stepping forward in the direction of your dreams, is as important as committing to one specific idea. Because those early steps are where the dreams are shaped.

So if your 2016 was frustrating, or depressing, or simply another year of not very much, seeing your friends have the things you want for yourself, then I invite you to join me in committing to making 2017 different. And here are three simple steps you can take to do that:

Are you with me?

Let’s do this!
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Do What You Love interview – Will Bruton

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Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover. ~ Mark Twain

Today we chat to a man who swapped a career in UK politics for a life on the ocean wave.

Will Bruton is a freelance captain who specializes in running beautiful cruising yachts and organising sailing charters all over the world. In his free time, as well as exploring the many beautiful places he visits, Will provides political insight to the marine sector and dabbles in journalism as a regular contributor to Yachting Monthly and Sailing Today magazines.

Will has just moved to Japan where he is immersing himself in the culture, building his own location independent travel businesses and teaching English. It’s been a pleasure to speak to him and find out how he’s consciously, and continuously, steering his life in the direction of his dreams.  ~ Rachel

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1. Tell us a bit about your background…

I was born in London, but I grew up in rural Lancashire, both about as far from the sea as you can get. At school I struggled to apply myself. Fortunately, I went to a school where I was allowed (perhaps too much!) freedom to pursue constructive interests outside the classroom. Education is fundamental, in the broadest sense.

After my GCSEs I did some parachute jumps on a course run by the British Army. An opportunity available then to school leavers, but one that most had never heard of. A skydiving course in Spain followed the next summer. I met a few people that were living a legitimate long-term existence, whilst doing what they really wanted. That’s when I realised you could put something like ‘skydiver’ on your tax return. One guy I learned to skydive with, Sam Hardy, has gone on to be a professional BASE jumper. I look on in awe.

I was quite straightforward in my ambitions though for the next few years. Sandhurst and a commission in the Army was the plan until towards the end of university. I spent three months in Canada attached to a regular regiment. A brilliant experience riding around in the turret of a tank, but one that made me realise I wasn’t great in such a hierarchical organisation. I envy the relationships people in the army build though. Freelancing has some lonely moments.

I studied Politics at university. Whilst I had no ambitions in that direction career wise, the subject interested me. The humanities have taken a real hammering in recent years. We’re all supposed to be producing a reason for our existence in the system. Tangible proof of why we study a subject and an end goal.

I spent a year working in Westminster for one of the House of Common’s more colourful characters between my second and third years. It was an election year and proved particularly interesting. I saw my boss lose his job and mine in the process. Working in Westminster was a real privilege. There’s an electric atmosphere there when something big is happening.

Last year, in one of travel’s bizarre coincidences, I ran into Lembit Opik (my old boss) at Marrakech airport. I was there to run the half-marathon. We found an afternoon to catch up. The main topic of conversation was the madness of politics and the joys of self-employment.

2. What was the catalyst for changing careers? Why sailing?

Whilst looking for countless lobbying jobs I didn’t really want to do, I launched my own lobbying start-up, appropriately called Black Sheep. I’d built up a knowledge of some legislation whilst working at Westminster, so I wrote to the companies concerned by it and made a business out of trying to change it for them.

Lobbying has always been seen as some kind of dark art. In truth it’s about articulating an argument effectively. That business was all about capitalising on specialist knowledge to build a few very strong bridges. I didn’t have the manpower to write to every politician. It all gets put in the bin by the researcher anyway. I know, because I was one. I focussed on identifying a few natural advocates that didn’t need their arms twisting. There’s still great scope for that model of lobbying. However, I was in a suit too much, and my heart wasn’t in it for the long run.

It struck me sailing would be a great way to work and travel. A mechanism to the kind of slow travel I knew I most enjoyed. A gap-year in the traditional sense has never really appealed.

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3. What does training to become a skipper involve?

To earn money as skipper of a small yacht, the bare minimum is really a Yachtmaster certificate these days. You need to spend a lot of time on the water and have a solid grasp of sailing. How to manage crew is a big part of the job. As you move up it’s about managing an expensive asset and all that goes with it.

I took an intensive ‘CELTA’ sailing course on the south coast. I used to keep quiet about it because the old sailing guard seem to hate the idea that you can learn to sail in a few months. In reality, if you’re sailing every day in crap weather, you learn a lot more than someone sailing at the weekends in good weather for fun. I finished the course with a very cautious approach.

4. What was your first job after qualifying?

I was very conscious my qualifications needed bolstering with more experience, so I signed up with all the yacht delivery companies to help deliver boats. To begin with, for expenses only. That was tough, but a brilliant learning curve. After quite a few deliveries I got a summer job as a skipper for the now ubiquitous Yacht Week in Croatia. I learned a lot and the sailing in Croatia is fantastic.

5. What does your work involve these days? And how has your business as a freelancer grown and evolved?

My business comprises several things that dovetail reasonably with each other. All involve travel.

I have got to the stage with the sailing where I can comfortably freelance. That provides the most reliable income stream. However, it’s also the most professionalised work I do. There are some qualifications I have to keep in date and without experience I would quickly get rusty anyway. I take on interesting yacht deliveries, charters, and some short term projects for yacht owners. It’s great to get on a boat and apply myself to something so different for a couple of weeks.

In parallel, I’ve worked very hard at getting my writing published, which is finally starting to pay off. Fundamentally, I pitch to editors about what I want to write about- so my enthusiasm doesn’t really wane. To begin with I set myself a target of getting in the major yachting titles. I’m now doing more travel writing as well, with a focus on how a yacht is a mechanism to fulfilling travel.

Finally, I am starting to build a travel company. It’s a long term project with no public face as yet. Fundamentally, it’s about fulfilling travel fueled by deep local insight. Unparalleled experiences and immersion in a place.

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6. You specialise in sailing Oyster Yachts. What is it about them that captured your heart and where has life onboard them taken you?

Oysters are built in the UK, and whilst they are beautiful yachts, they are also built to cruise long distances. That in itself is a mechanism to meet interesting owners game for big adventures. Thirty-two Oysters are setting off on a circumnavigation together next year – I am hoping to join a couple I used to work for for a leg of the The Pacific. It’s also great to sail a British built yacht. It’s like a Bentley before people started painting them orange. A bit of an understated magic carpet.

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7. What kind of clients do you work for?

All sorts. On charter, you’re essentially working for holiday guests who’ve hired the boat. When you’re sailing for the owner, it’s a little different. You also build a relationship you wouldn’t on a motor yacht. It’s first name terms in many cases.

One guy I worked for was a former bank chairman. Really not what I expected. On one charter I had two former professional football players, a journalist just off the plane from Syria, and a ski guide. It does vary enormously.

8. What have you been doing over the summer? Talk us through a typical day…

This summer I have been getting ready to move to Japan… so it’s been a bit different.

I spent a month taking a CETLA English teaching certificate, before getting some practice teaching at a language school in Brighton. Whilst I’ve no plans to teach for a living, I’ve set up a micro-business providing English language training to people in the marine industry trying to pass maritime exam papers set in English. Very niche. In Japan I’m going to teach couple of evenings a week to get me off of my laptop and meet some locals. I like learning new things.

Just before leaving Europe I sailed on a yacht to the UK from Palma as the First Mate, or Second in Command. It was great to not have all the responsibility of being skipper to be honest, particularly as the skipper had sailed round the world twice, so there was lots to talk about.

A conventional day on a long trip like that is a bit unusual. We work in shifts or watches, usually three hours on, then six hours off. A lot of keeping a yacht safe is pre-empting things that could go wrong, so we are constantly checking everything. A lot of time is spent trying to adjust the sails to make her go as fast as possible… eight miles an hour if we’re lucky!

On this trip we saw whales, dolphins and basking sharks in the Bay of Biscay. There were some spectacular sunsets and sunrises – fantastic time to think, take stock, and come up with the next plan. It’s a totally different rhythm.

On charter the pace is pretty mad and the days are very long. A great charter is a swan, effortless above the waterline, the crew frenetically paddling below. Two weeks is ideal as most guests with busy lifestyles take the first week to relax properly. The key is to have a loose plan that goes with what the wind wants to do, not that all guests come equipped with a capacity for loose planning!

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9. Life on the sea must be liberating, exhilarating, and at times, challenging. What big life lessons have you learnt along your journey to doing what you love?

Sailing lends unparalleled perspective on life. Ocean sailing in particular. The challenges and rewards are big. There are a lot of parallels with entrepreneurship and both are ultimately exercises in self-reliance.

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There’s an old expression gentlemen don’t sail to windward, which essentially means they don’t go against the natural forces acting against them, but there’s more to it than first appears. It’s not about giving up, it’s about working with what you’ve got. You can zig-zag into the wind and tide to get to your ultimate destination, but it’s pretty miserable. When one idea I am pursuing starts to stagnate, or I get writers block, I quickly change tack onto something else. It’s about making efficient gains in the long run. When there’s no wind sometimes I’ll just let the boat drift for a couple of hours. Have a swim!

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10. You love writing; how are you pursuing your passion for journalism and what have been your biggest ‘proud ofs’ to date?

I’ve just written a piece for Yachting World, a magazine I never imagined being published in and really the leading voice in yachting. I wrote to the editor last year. To my great surprise, she invited me to Time Inc’s gargantuan office on the Southbank. That she took the time out to meet me for a coffee and give me her two cents on how to get into magazines meant the world at a time when I felt I was banging my head against a brick wall. Rejection is par for the course and you have to just keep submitting copy you believe in.

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Norah Ephron was a journalist, director and all round larger than life Hollywood character. Her son made a film about her recently. Her mantra ‘Everything Is Copy’ was the title. It kind of sums up the feeling of being compelled to write. Every nuance of life has the potential to be a good piece of writing. I’m quite self-conscious about what I put out there, but I do it anyway.

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11. You’ve just moved out to Japan. What are you doing over there?

Japan has always been somewhere I have wanted to live for a while. My partner has just finished a Japanese degree, so the stars have aligned somewhat. I’m going to write a lot, do some sailing, and immerse myself in the country. I’m now about 70 per cent location independent, so being based here is fine.

The yachting market is expanding apace in Asia as well so I have trips planned to Singapore and Hong Kong.

12. What does the future hold for you? What’s the ultimate dream?

To carry on building location independent businesses conducive to long-term travel. In particular, slow travel. Immersing myself in countries and taking unusual routes between them is what I find most fulfilling.

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I’ve travelled at the sharp end of the plane and realised you’re still in a tube at 40,000ft breathing the same recycled air. I’ll happily take two weeks to sail from Southern Spain to the UK though. Dipping a toe into places has always been crap, you’ve got to get amongst it to really understand it.

The ultimate dream? I’m not sure. Perhaps sail, fly, and drive myself around the world?!

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13. Who is your biggest inspiration?

Difficult to say, but despite being clichéd, I’d say Richard Branson. He is proof you can create business, break records, and have enormous fun. He also works very hard, that’s the old fashioned bit cynics tend to forget. I’ve seen him kitesurfing early in the morning off Necker a couple of times.

14. What advice would you give anyone who isn’t doing what they love?

At the crux of it is how people think about work. You don’t have to 9-5 anymore. I’m in Japan now. The friend we’re staying with has recently ditched his salaryman job for flexible hours. He’s working from home with his two-year-old on his lap. If it’s possible to confront the status quo here, a lot more is possible in the west. Sideline businesses people do outside a regular job are often some of the most interesting.

15. Finally, is there a quote you try and live by?

Don’t grow up. It’s a trap.

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To read more about Will’s extraordinary experiences visit his website. You can also contact him by email [email protected] or follow him on Twitter @WillBruton

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Wednesday Wellbeing

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“May the space between where I am and where I want to be inspire me.” ~ Tracee Ellis Ross

Yes… it’s that time of the week again – Happy Wednesday!

Friday is fast approaching but if you’re feeling the midweek blues you’re in the right place to be inspired!

Every Wednesday for the next few weeks, a member of the Do What You Love team will be sharing what they’re up to and what is motivating them at the moment. We hope their thoughts get you thinking about what lights you up and how you can make get more of this into your life…

Today founder Beth Kempton talks about making dreams happen…

I have just got back from the USA where I spoke at ‘I Am… Courage – New York City’. I shared the stage with five amazing women who lit up the room with their tales of brave and truthful living.

The six of us actually created that event from nothing – we met at a workshop several months before and decided we had a common message, which we wanted to spread widely. When the event was over, and we had been showered with incredible feedback from the audience, we went to dinner and just sat there looking at each other, grinning. In that moment we realised that we just made something awesome happen, simply by committing to it, setting a date, and then doing the work needed to pull it off. And then we all showed up and spoke honestly and openly, and it resonated deeply with those in attendance.

It taught me that we don’t need other people’s permission to do amazing things. We can make them happen ourselves, especially when we have the support of others like us, committed to a common goal.

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My thought of the week: When you’re stuck in a mid-week slump, remind yourself that you have all the power you need to lift yourself out. You just need to commit, and then follow through. You are the owner of your dreams and you can make them real!

Exciting times!

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Exciting times, exciting times, exciting times…

This is what I constantly seem to be saying to Beth at the moment, in fact I have been saying it for the last few months. There is an energy and a level of optimism in what we are doing at the moment that I don’t think we have experienced for a couple of years in the business. Not to say that it hasn’t been enjoyable, far from it, but we seem to be in a position where the foundations of our plans have been laid and all those hours, days, months and years of hard work are paying dividends.

Why the level of excitement? Well, there are a few reasons. Firstly, Beth is realising her dream of writing a book and is working with her dream publisher to bring ‘Freedom Seeker’ to life and out into the world. Stay tuned for more on that very soon! To watch someone so close to you achieve a lifelong dream is a reminder that life is what we make it. (Beth is looking over my shoulder right now and telling me that ‘Life is what you make it’ was her motto in her school yearbook over two decades ago!)

Secondly, the actual writing of the book has provided a fresh focus for us here at DWYL. The world of publishing is new to us but finding out about it, working with new people and learning new skills has been a very enjoyable learning curve.

Thirdly, it became very apparent that to achieve all our new goals we needed some additional help. So it is with great pleasure that I can introduce our newest team member… Fiona Duffy.

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We are absolutely over the moon to welcome Fiona into the DWYL family. She brings with her invaluable experience working with The Happy Startup School, an infectious enthusiasm, a huge smile and a refreshing honesty and openness. And she gets it! She really does. She gets what we are trying to do, where we want to be and has so many ideas to help us get there.

I would like to take this opportunity to thank the guys at The Happy Startup School for supporting Fiona’s decision to go to part time so she can spend the rest of the week with us, and embarks on the phase of her career and life. You are going to love her like we do!

Recruiting for your own business is often challenging, because when you have a small team you really have to fit together. But sometimes someone comes along who makes it very easy for you. In this case it was a complete no-brainer. Fiona oozes charm, a zest for life and is a huge force of positive energy. Welcome Fiona – we hope you enjoy your role with us!

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Thought of the moment

We are all works in progress. Beth spotted this written on a window in New York on her travels last week, and tells me she suddenly felt like the pressure was off. Sometimes we need to remind ourselves that we are works-in-progress, that we don’t have to be perfect, and that every day offers an opportunity to learn and grow. So here’s to you being a work-in-progress too!

Until next time,

Mr.K

On adventure and story-telling

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This is a guest post by Alastair Humphreys. Alastair is an adventurer, blogger, author and motivational speaker whose expeditions have included cycling round the worldwalking across India and rowing the Atlantic. Alastair was named as a National Geographic Adventurer of the Year for his pioneering work on the concept of micro adventures. He has also written five books about his adventures. Find out more here.

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“I think the best way to succeed at all of this is to imagine that every Instagram photo is a precious plate photograph, that every Tweet is a polished chapter of a book, that every video on Facebook is a painting I had to sweat over for hours.”

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On speaking your truth and plans for turning 40

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How was your weekend? Mine was spent in a yurt in the English countryside, with 150 entrepreneurs talking and dancing long into the night! I was invited to The Happy Startup Summercamp to talk about what it really means to do what you love in business, but feel like I came away with so much more than I gave. It was one of those very special meetings of very lovely humans, which included a lot of laughter, deep thinking, new friends, early morning secret adventures in the woods, late night disco dancing and much more besides. If this is the life of a speaker I am keen for more!

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Public speaking is one of those things that so many of us are afraid of, but I know is in my future a lot next year with the launch of my book Freedom Seeker. Rather than getting scared about it, I decided to embrace it with the largest hug that I could. And so I did the only thing there is to do – I flew to Santa Fe, New Mexico a few weeks ago, and took a class in transformational speaking from the one and only Gail Larsen. Gail has trained most of the most inspiring speakers I know – from Gabby Bernstein and Danielle LaPorte, to Kris Carr and Rebecca Campbell – so I knew it was going to be an important experience, but I had no idea just how transformational it would be.

When we arrived Gail asked us what would be a breakthrough for us. I have a good memory and like to be prepared, so although public speaking itself isn’t such a scary thing for me, speaking without a script was HUGE. As in, I-can’t-imagine-ever-speaking-unscripted-HUGE. So that would be my breakthrough. To stand up on the last day and give a 15 minute talk unscripted. And somehow, with Gail’s masterful coaching and brilliant approach, I did it. Not only did I do it, but I LOVED it. Now that’s what I call a breakthrough.I will be forever grateful to Gail and the angels who shared the experience. (I could tell you so much about the precious women who went through the breakthrough process with me, but I’m going to save that for another day, because I have so much to say… not least that we are going to be speaking together in New York in October. Stay tuned!)

But doing something in a workshop and doing it for real are two different things, right? So this weekend I tried it out for the first time at a proper event. In front of 150 people. On a stage made of hay bales, in a beautiful barn draped with fairy lights and bunting. To be honest, it couldn’t really have been more of a perfect place to learn to fly as an unscripted speaker. But I did it, and thanks to the soul-nourishing energy of the lovely people gathered there, I loved it again. It wasn’t easy. I still got nervous. I might do some things differently next time. But I got up on that stage and danced around in my cowboy boots and told some stories and had a bunch of people come up afterwards and look into my eyes and say thank you. So it was absolutely worth it.

That’s what happens when we do the hard things. And that’s why we do the hard things. Because it makes a difference to someone. Even if that person is just you.

This week I challenge you to do a hard thing, and notice what happens. And if you want to try public speaking in a soulful, story-based, self-inspiring way, talk to Gail, go visit her in Santa Fe or take the online version of her class, because she is the master.

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And finally… Turning 40 this year? Know any awesome women who are?

I am working on a very cool (currently top secret) thing to celebrate turning 40 myself in 2017, and would love suggestions for people to get involved. Only requirements are: (1) To be female (2) To be turning 40 anytime between now and the end of 2017 (3) To be a lovely human being who wants to connect with other lovely human beings.

Please email me suggestions (name/email/one sentence about them) to [email protected]. It’s totally fine to suggest yourself too, if you fit the bill!

I THANK YOU AND THEY WILL THANK YOU!

PS: Please share with a friend if they might know some awesome 40s!

Have a great week.

Beth

Do What You Love interview – Tania John & Rebecca Hughes

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Today we meet sisters Tania John and Rebecca Hughes who have combined their diverse professional backgrounds to reignite a shared passion for outdoor adventure. Last year Tania and Rebecca co-founded the Women’s Adventure Expo – the first adventure and travel expo in the UK dedicated to women – and, following huge success, they are now preparing for their second Expo in October. We spoke to Rebecca to find out what inspired the dynamic duo to use their motivation for doing what they love as a platform to inspire others. ~ Rachel

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