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Why more time is not what you need, and other productivity tips for writers

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This is a guest post by one of the UK’s leading experts in digital distraction and digital detox and author of The Distraction Trap: How to Focus in a Digital World, Frances Booth. Find out more about Frances here.

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Whether you work as a writer, aspire to be a writer, or use writing for business, these tips will help you be more productive with your writing. This is the second post in a two-part series. For more productivity tips, you can read part one of Top Productivity Tips For Writers.

Today we’ll look at the pressures around writing, creative fuel, and why more time is not what you need. Try these strategies for staying productive as a writer.

Give yourself less time

Having unlimited time to write isn’t always helpful. We might dream of that sabbatical, that year off, or retirement … when we’ll finally write that book. Then the huge chunk of time we’ve been waiting so long for finally arrives … and we don’t get round to writing. Would you believe it, we’ve got too much time! Huge swathes of time can leave us without a structure, and without any pressure to get on with our writing. Of course, too much pressure isn’t healthy either, but we’re looking for a balance that encourages us to write.

So, give yourself a bit less time. Give yourself one day a week to work on your book, rather than waiting for the whole week. Give yourself three hours to write that blog or article, rather than waiting for a whole day. What happens when we give ourselves less time? We’re forced to prioritise, we’re forced to say no to things that don’t really matter, and we’re forced to leave to one side – never to be done – the unimportant tasks we were filling our time with.

The drama lives on the page

It’s easy to get dramatic about writing. The turmoil! The angst! The difficult plotline! But getting dramatic about why it’s such a struggle is energy spent on the wrong thing. Tension should be in the words and the sentences you create. If you’re making a big fuss out loud about that piece, that chapter, or that blog that is so impossible, then ask yourself why. Yes, writing is difficult, and yes, we need methods and strategies to deal with the blocks and fears we face. But being dramatic isn’t going to solve it. It will just slow you down. Do some work on dealing with blocks or on sustaining yourself as a writer instead.

Creative fuel

Two of the main reasons writing grinds to a halt is that a writer is either blocked or has run out of steam. To solve the running out of steam problem, make sure you’ve given yourself enough creative fuel. This can seem counter-intuitive as a productivity strategy. But switch off your computer, get up, go out, and do something inspiring. Go for a walk, visit a gallery, or potter round a shop – do whatever you feel like doing to explore. There’s no agenda here, and you don’t have to write about what you’re doing. You’re simply gathering creative inspiration. When you return to your writing, if you’ve stocked up on creative fuel, the words will flow more easily. Staying inspired is one of the best ways to stay productive as a writer.

Don’t talk about it. Do it

We need to be careful how much we talk about our writing. There is a danger that we can spend energy and time on talking about writing, rather than actually on writing. For example, we might tell everyone about the book that we have ‘all ready in our head’. But we’re talking about it instead of actually getting it down on the page. It isn’t a book or a blog or an article until it’s actually written. Talking about our writing can also dilute our focus. It can scare us too – we put pressure on ourselves unnecessarily. It’s better to just get on with the piece. Get productive and get writing. Then you can talk about the piece when it’s finished.

Dealing with the pressure

Lots of the time we waste on writing is because we’re scared. We’re scared of pressing publish, we’re scared of people reading our words and we’re scared of being judged. When we write, we make ourselves vulnerable. We need to acknowledge this pressure so we can be more productive with our writing. We need to work through our fears – this is important work that needs doing and is worth spending our time on.

Some of the ways we react to this pressure include spending time checking, checking, and checking again. Or, we finish a piece, or a book, or a blog, but we never submit or publish it. All we’re doing is protecting ourselves. But like starting, the finishing line is another point where you can save huge amounts of time with your writing. How much time are you spending delaying or procrastinating once you’re finished? Clearing that final hurdle and pressing send is an important part of the process. So once you’ve finished, don’t delay. Take a deep breath and press publish.

Ditch the routine

Do you have a routine? How does it go?

Chances are you don’t acknowledge your routine day to day, but we bet you have one. You probably go through most of it on autopilot, without stopping to consider whether what you’re doing is healthy, productive or enjoyable. Isn’t it time to change that?

We’ve been really enjoying doing the activities from the Do What You Love e-course recently. Week three of the course is all about being brave and coming alive. One of the activities asks you to spend a day mixing things up a bit, so we asked Rose to ditch her routine today. Here’s what happened.


When I started thinking about what I was going to do differently today, I was at a bit of a loss. Shaking up your routine is inevitably going to move you out of your comfort zone – that was clear at the very moment I started thinking about it. But when I really got to thinking about what I could do differently, I felt a strange sense of excitement.

It started with breakfast. Today I swapped my usual Marmite for Nutella and bananas on toast. Having chocolate for breakfast always feels indulgent, but it’s the chocolate-banana combo that makes this an unbeatable start to the day.

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Rather than sitting straight down in front of my computer after breakfast, I decided to go for a morning stroll on the seafront. It was a beautiful day – sunny and breezy – and I was surprised to find so many people by the sea before 9am. I was even more surprised at how friendly everyone was. I tend to assume everyone is grumpy in the morning, not being a morning person myself. But receiving so many friendly hellos so early in the day put me in a great mood.

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After my stroll it was time to get to work. But I was feeling remarkably chirpy, and I didn’t fancy working on my own. I decided to give my friend (a freelance designer who works from home) a call. She invited me to work at her house, so I grabbed some juice and biscuits and headed over.

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I loved working somewhere new in the company of my friend and her cat, Mila. We enjoyed frothy coffee, countless snacks and great music. And I had a really productive working day.

I was so surprised at what an effect shaking up my routine had on my mood, and my productivity. I felt more alive today than I have in weeks. I’m looking forward to changing my routine in different ways in the future – perhaps I’ll end up replacing my old routine with a great new one that’s just right for me!


The Do What You Love e-course will help you ditch bad habits and boring routines, and lead you to see what you really want (or need) more clearly.

“I am now far more open to ideas and willing to say yes to opportunities. I think, well, whats the worst that can happen?!” Shona W., Do What You Love participant, Jan 2015

Join us this June for the experience of a lifetime.

Dream a little dream

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Make your dreams come true! 

The Do What You Love e-course will encourage you to reconnect to the real you, deep inside, in order to uncover what you really love. Understanding yourself and your passions will help you map out your perfect road ahead.

“This course is like pressing a pause button on your life – to take stock and help realise your potential.” Course participant, January 2015

Join us this June for the experience of a lifetime.

Life according to Mr K: Is doing what you love selfish?

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Recently Beth was on a panel at a debate in London, talking about whether Doing What You Love being good advice is ‘an urban myth’. As you can imagine, she was on the side arguing that it is important, valuable advice. During the lively debate, hosted by Barclays at the Royal Institute, a number of interesting points were raised by the audience. Due to time constraints, not all of these were discussed, but I wanted to pick up on one in particular that we hear quite often ourselves: the idea that doing what you love is selfish.

Personally I couldn’t disagree with this more. I think that the exact opposite is true. Of course, in the beginning when you are exploring your interests and your passions and realising your hopes and dreams, it may feel like you are being a little self-indulgent, especially if you aren’t used to spending time doing things that you enjoy and care about. But as soon as you open your heart and mind to doing what you love, through conversations, by being pro-active, or even starting a new business, you find that what you love starts to matter to other people too.

A personal journey towards doing what you love begins with asking yourself some really deep and thought-provoking questions. Questions that are all about you, your life and how you want it to be. But to perceive this as you being self-absorbed or even selfish is very short-sighted. Once you start to find the answers amazing things can happen. You start interacting with like-minded people who share your ideas, your passions and your interests, you open your heart and mind to exciting new opportunities that make help you learn and grow; you discover a greater charity and a willingness to share and collaborate, and you strive to be your best self.

Let me give you two very good examples based on two people featured in our recent Alchemy Series.

Dave Cornthwaite: a Graphic Designer who at 26 had everything that society had implied he needed to be successful. However he was far from happy. 10 years ago he left it all behind and set out on a journey to find some answers. His adventures since then have been very inspiring. His ‘Say Yes More’ campaign is helping transform the mindset of thousands and his newest project is helping plant a huge number of trees. His personal journey has ultimately allowed him to inspire many others to follow their own passions and do what they love.

Emily Penn: after University Emily was offered a job as an architect in Australia but because she was so committed to protecting the environment she refused to fly. Instead, she sailed there from the UK. It was on this journey that she discovered a deep love and respect for both the ocean and the communities she met along the way. Rather than taking the job, she became an ocean advocate and she is now passionate about eliminating plastics from the sea.

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These personal quests were pivotal to finding clarity and purpose and they highlight just what can be achieved when you follow your true passion. Maybe when you are the best ‘you’ that you can be, you can create the most opportunities to help and inspire others.

If you are struggling with the idea of doing what you love, or feel that it is selfish, or that it is hard to focus on your own plans and dreams when you have so many obligations to others, then I would encourage you to consider joining us for the Do What You Love e-course beginning on June 15, 2015. It will completely change your perspective, and help you understand why the world actually needs you to do what you love.

Either way, this month I’d like to challenge you to think about someone who inspires you. How they have followed their own passions? How have they ended up having a greater impact in the world as a result? Then think about what that could look like for you.

Until next time,

Mr K

 

Why your writing matters (aka birthing my first book)

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Last weekend I joined a workshop in London run by Hay House, the largest and most influential self-empowerment publishing company in the world. It included a whole half day session with Reid Tracy, President and CEO, who shared a host of valuable insights into how to get published.

As I sat there in the room of 250+ people, scribbling madly to capture all the wisdom being shared, I thought about the extent of the potential impact that single workshop could have. Even if only 20% of the people in that room ever get published – by anyone, not necessarily Hay House – and if they each go on to sell only 10,000 copies of their book, assuming that everyone who reads a good book shares it with at least one other person, that’s over a million people who would be reached, supported, or influenced. That’s both huge and exciting.

You could see in the faces of everyone who stood up to ask a question, queued in the break to speak to Reid or one of the authors, sat in the corner furiously making notes, or chatted animatedly to other participants, that dreams were taking shape in that room. The practical guidance, motivation and success stories shared showed that it is possible, even if it takes a lot of hard work. It also made me believe more strongly that our stories are there to be shared, we just need to learn how to share them in a way that connects with other people.

If you were to write a book, what would it be about? Would it be fiction or non-fiction? Advice based? Autobiography? Rooted in research? It’s an interesting question to ask yourself, and see what comes up.
Personally I have had a book in my head for the past 3-4 years, and it feels like it’s time to start bringing it to life. It’s a big thing, that needs a lot of planning and attention, but mostly it just needs me to sit down and write it. That’s a scary thought, knowing that the only thing stopping me from writing it is me. But that’s also a good thought – because it means I can change that in an instant. (She says as she pulls out a brand new notebook…)

So for me, even though I will be on maternity leave for the second half of this year, I plan to use this time of birth, nurturing and space away from work to start my first book. That’s the idea anyway – who knows how it will turn out! If you are working on a book this year let me know – I’d love to share the journey with you.

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Do What You Love – the e-course starts June 15 – this is the LAST time we will run the course this year

As I am taking five months off for maternity leave, the June DWYL class will be the last one this year. If you are feeling stuck in a job you hate, frustrated with the lack of balance in your life, weighed down by obligations, creatively stifled or otherwise not doing what you love, I urge you to join us. This mind-opening online course has helped people from countries all across the world to identify and follow their passion, learn how to monetise it or find a career that really makes them feel alive, and live a happier, more fulfilling life as a result.

Don’t miss out – join us! Book your spot here.

This week we challenge you to consider what would need to be different for you to honestly say you are doing what you love every day. Share your thoughts on Facebook or Twitter @DoWhatYouLoveXx.

Until next time!
Beth and team

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Our new creative course ‘The Ultimate Portfolio Builder’, brought to you in association with top trade show Printsource, starts TODAY. Plus, one lucky participant will win a FREE BOOTH at Printsource New York, plus $1000 towards travel! If you are an artist or designer looking to build your commercial portfolio, and haven’t yet checked out the course, watch this short video featuring course leader Rachael Taylor to find out what is included (hint: it’s jam packed and amazing for your creative career!)

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You can still squeeze in if you are quick – book your spot here.

When business meets happiness (a free gift to kick start your business from our friends at the Happy Startup School)

When you think of doing what you love, what comes to mind? Many of us think of travel, friends and family, creativity… but not always business.

We want to change that. Here at Do What You Love we believe business can be incredibly life enriching if it’s built on the right values. Our friends at the Happy Startup School share our passion for business, and as part of our Business month they’re offering a great free toolkit to help our community kick-start their businesses the right way.

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The Happy Startup School are helping a new breed of entrepreneur gain the confidence, skills, toolset and community they need to build meaningful businesses & be their own boss. They put on crazy events like their annual camping retreat in Sussex for budding change-makers, the Happy Startup Summercamp and gather tribes of likeminded creatives online to support one another in the start of new business ideas.

They’re here to give you a push starting out in business and have a free ebook and startup toolkit for people to learn how you can build a happy startup. Start working on your business plan with their simple approach and free worksheet.

Need a bit of inspiration to get started? Check out the Happy Startup School’s 10 steps to happiness in business & life below.

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You can do it!

Why getting serious about goals is the key to achieving your dreams

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When was the last time you thought about what you want to achieve in your life? When was the last time you paid real attention to the hopes and desires deep inside of you?

It’s easy to put our dreams on hold and see them as things that we’ll pursue in the future when we don’t have errands to run, bills to pay, work to do, and people to care for. But the truth is we’ll probably always be busy with one thing another, and as the years go by, we’ll only be getting older and more tired too. NOW really is the best time to make our dreams happen. It’s the only time that we can really count on!

Setting goals is a great place to start, but it can feel overwhelming. How do you go about it? What’s the best approach?  These inspiring TED Talks offer some great advice on how to make your dreams happen…

1. Derek Sivers: Keep your goals to yourself

Once you’ve made up your mind and set a goal you’re sure will change your life, our first instinct is to tell those around us. In this insightful TED Talk, Derek Sivers, leading entrepreneur in the music business, says it’s often better to keep your goals to yourself. History has shown us that people who talk about their ambitions and resolutions are often less likely to achieve them. Research dating all the way back to the 1920s shows that keeping aspirations a secret is your best chance at actually following through with them.

2. Reggie Rivers: If you want to achieve your goals, don’t focus on them

“We all talk about setting goals, but we don’t talk that much about how to actually achieve goals,” says former Denver Broncos running back Reggie Rivers. In this TED Talk, he speaks about how focusing on your goals is the one sure way not to achieve them. Spending time concentrating on what is in your control rather than goals, which are outside of your control, puts the power of action in your hands and is the best approach to realising your aspirations.

3. Mel Robbins: Setting your goals high

In this motivational talk, Mel Robbins speaks on setting your goals high, regardless of any embarrassment you may feel. She tells the audience about the importance of setting goals for what you really want out of life, rather than just what you think is achievable. By keeping the bigger picture in mind, it is easier for us to accomplish the smaller targets that make it up. Recognise what you really want, admit you want it and do it, says Robbins.


4. Jason Fox: Goal setting is broken

The way people are setting goals is changing in the modern world. In this TED Talk, Jason Fox, Australian innovation management consultant and author, likens goal setting in business to the engagement needed for playing video games. He speaks on learning from challenges and failures and how it’s only through these that we can learn to achieve our goals and revel in the rewards. Keeping focus on what you have already achieved, rather than what still needs to be done, creates a bias towards action and keeps people engaged in a project for longer.

5. Raghava KK: What’s your 200-year plan?

You might have a 5-year plan, but what about a 200-year plan? Artist Raghava KK has set his eyes on an ultra-long-term horizon; at TEDxSummit, he shows how it helps guide today’s choices and tomorrow’s goals — and encourages you to make your own 200-year plan too.

What do you want to achieve next? What goals will you set to make this happen? What approach will you take?